Don't let the ladies on the church flower rota do your wedding flowers!!
Church wedding flowers can be stunning, but be aware…………..
CHURCH FLOWERS
You might regret letting the church ladies do your wedding flowers.
A bit harsh maybe but navigating the church flower rota can often prove to be challenging. You may have your heart set on getting married in a beautiful church surrounded by loved ones, but if there are family connections or friendships with the ladies on the church flower rota, it can be difficult to assert your own preferences without causing any offence or upset.
You will be surprised to hear how many times I have been asked if I mind NOT doing the church flowers, and to be honest I don't mind, many brides these day choose not to have many flowers in the church and if they do, they generally want them repurposed and moved to the reception where they can be used and appreciated for longer, something the flower Church rota ladies are not keen on.
It's important to be cautious about having the ladies from the Church Rota handle your Church wedding flowers, and there are often several reasons why you may go for this option, it may work out slightly cheaper, however while there are certainly talented and experienced women who may be eager to create beautiful floral arrangements for your special day, there are also many who may be less familiar with modern trends and the preferences of young brides. Additionally, as volunteers, these ladies may not always be available in the days leading up to your wedding or may have limited availability due to other commitments.
It's also worth noting that as a professional florist, it's our job to work closely with you to create arrangements that reflect your personal style and budget. While you may not have a lot of experience with flowers yourself, our expertise can help guide you towards the right choices for your wedding. On the other hand, church flower ladies may not be as flexible or willing to accommodate your preferences, and may rely on basic, generic arrangements using long-lasting flowers like roses, lilies, and carnations, usually wanting them left in situ for the forthcoming church services.
I once worked with a bride who had agreed to let the church flower ladies handle her church wedding flowers, after a recommendation from the vicar. However, as we got closer to the big day, she became increasingly anxious about their plans and felt railroaded by their insistence on filling every inch of the church with pink flowers including 100 carnation buttonholes for the congregation. The ladies may have gone above and beyond in providing wedding flowers, but unfortunately, due to time constraints, the flowers did not look their best on the actual wedding day and weren’t cohesive with the bridal party or reception flowers.
While it's understandable that some brides may want to save money by relying on church volunteers, it's important to remember that your wedding photos will last a lifetime, and having high-quality, customised floral arrangements can make a big difference in creating a memorable and beautiful day. If you do choose to work with church flower ladies, consider providing them with the flowers and designs you want to ensure everyone is on the same page. And if you do hire a professional florist, rest assured that we have the knowledge, skill, and creativity to help make your wedding day truly special.
I'm really not saying don't use the church flowers ladies if that is what suits you, the lead up to a wedding can be very stressful for all involved and that's before things go wrong such as harsh weather conditions etc, it's more that you should be aware of the potential pitfalls in doing so.
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